Saturday, September 6, 2025

Mrs. Blow

We're less than six weeks into the new school year, and already it's been a doozy. I've never seen so many angry, disrespectful, and frankly, unbalanced parents before. It's like a whole year's worth of adult crazy has already unfolded around us in less than six weeks. The administration and the front office staff have been really stressed out. We joked on Friday that maybe it's the upcoming full moon making people act so wild!

I still love my job, though. One of the best parts is early in the morning when all my little friends stop by the office to say hello to me. Without really trying, I've become pals with around a half dozen kids who all go out of their way to come see me, give me hugs, and talk to me. I just adore them. 

One little girl (a first grader and the daughter of one of our teachers) is especially sweet and one of my favorites. She's also kind of shy. Thursday morning while her mama was clocking in at the office computer, she came over to say hi and give me the customary morning hug. Afterwards, she stood there, hesitating, and I could see she wanted something. Her mama prompted, "Go ahead. Ask her. It's okay." Then little A., very nervous, whispered, "Um...would you like...would you like to buy some popcorn...to help my dance class?" 

Turns out her little ballet class is doing a popcorn fundraiser where they sell big tins of flavored popcorn to raise money. I was the first person A had asked, and she was scared. It was so freakin' cute! How could I say no? :) Later in the day her mom texted me a link to an online catalog, and I went ahead and made a purchase, and then promptly forgot about it. 

The rest of my day after that was utter crap. I kept running up against deadlines and obstacles at every turn, and to cap off the day my bank deposit was off. I ended up going back to work when I was supposed to be done for the day, to figure out where the deposit problem was. I was on the phone with an accountant at the district office, getting more and more stressed out, when little A. appeared at my office door. As soon as I was off the phone, she gave me a big hug, thanked me for buying popcorn, and handed me this sweet card she'd made for me. 



That made the whole day better for Mrs. Blow!

17 comments:

Bob said...

A sweet card from a sweet child makes it all better!

Margaret said...

What a lovely card! I know those days well after 37 years in the classroom. I had many wonderful parents but the ones who aren't--wowee. Crazy times!

ApacheDug said...

That card sure did tug at my heart! Very sweet 👍🙂

Miss Merry said...

My youngest granddaughter is a teacher's kid. The school secretaries could not have been kinder to her from her first moments at the school. They even made her a little desk to sit at while mom took a turn at the end of the day for the bus room or to organize car riders. Their thoughtfulness and generosity has continued to grade 4. They are the unsung heros. My daughter's first week as already resulted in a parent trespassed from school property and a screaming match between the mother and the hallway while her child cowered in a classroom. My heart breaks for the affect on the children of tomorrow.

BootsandBraids said...

Since the parents seem so to be “angry, disrespectful, unbalanced”, maybe it’s the sweet children that should be in charge of raising their parents, rather than the other way around.

Cro Magnon said...

Charming. During my time as a teacher I only received ONE 'love letter'. It was from a lovely little 6 year old.

Librarian said...

That's so cute! And the card is done really tastefully, never mind Mrs Blow :-D
It is horrible to think of so many children growing up with parents who give such a bad example. I don't even want to know what their homelife is like, if they act like that in public.

Moving with Mitchell said...

I love that. You will be forever Mrs. Blow! I hope the parents settle down and learn to behave.

jabblog said...

That is so sweet. What a lovely child.

Yorkshire Pudding said...

Mrs Blow? I thought that only Gregg called you that in the privacy of your home. By the way, were the "angry, disrespectful, and frankly, unbalanced parents" wearing red MAGA hats by any chance?

Dave R said...

Nice card. I do think everybody's on edge these days and doubt if the full moon has anything to do with it.

Michael said...

Part of what kept me in the classroom all those years were the sweet kids who enjoyed learning and were always so respectful. The downside of my job was all of the unhinged parents with crazy demands. I can only imagine that the crazy parents have multiplied given the climate we live in.

Colette said...

That card is a keeper!

Ms. Moon said...

Mrs. Blow! That is precious. I think that kindness towards children is a gift that will never be forgotten and I know you have offered a lot of children that gift.
Do you think that the parents are all feeling that everything is so crazy now that they have to control the few things they can which results in such behavior towards the school? I have no idea, really. But damn, that doesn't sound good.

Ellen D. said...

Sorry work has been stressful and I hope things settle down for you soon. Thank goodness for sweet students like Little Miss A that brighten your day!

Steve Reed said...

What a cute card! So she left out a few letters. :)

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

Sweet card. What a darling child.