Sunday, December 31, 2023

Vigil

I'll never forget how I'm spending New Year's Eve 2023. For two days now my dad's blood pressure and pulse have been so low as to be unmeasurable, but he's still (just barely) breathing. The hospice nurse that came out today was surprised that he's still holding on.

I told my mom that he's determined to see the new year in. My dad is tougher than I knew. 

Dad's getting very small doses of morphine here and there, and he seems comfortable and peaceful. I'm grateful for that. He still responds a little to voices and touch. It surely won't be long now.

I'll try to be back soon, but in the meantime, I wish you all a Happy New Year. Thank you for another year of friendship and kindness.

24 comments:

Terra said...

Hugs and prayers for you and your loved ones in this so difficult time.

Susan Heather said...

It is hard for you all. Hugs from New Zealand.

Steve. Because 'Steve' is almost as nice a name as 'Paul'. said...

Thank You for a year of wonderful posts. XOO

Bonnie said...

I'm sorry Jennifer. This is such a difficult time and the holidays do not make it any easier. I'm keeping you all in my thoughts. I appreciate your friendship. xx

coffeeontheporchwithme said...

Thinking of you at this time. Losing a parent is life changing. I’m glad to hear he is comfortable. - Jenn

Andrew said...

Not a great start for the new year for you. Take good care of yourself and you can be there for others. No matter, best wishes for 2024.

Yael said...

My thoughts are with you Jennifer.

Librarian said...

Thinking of you, dear friend.

Coppa's girl said...

Normally I don't comment, although I read your blog regularly. I'd like to add that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Moving with Mitchell said...

Sending you love and hugs.

Yorkshire Pudding said...

With you in spirit my friend. It sounds as though he is not suffering. I hope he made it into 2024.

The Weaver of Grass said...

I send you my love. You all need the strength to get through the next few weeks and months. My thoughts are with you.

Karla said...

This is so hard, losing a parent. Sending love to you and your Mom.

Colette said...

You are in my thoughts.

Bob said...

Hoping it's a peaceful transition for all of you.
Peace

Debra She Who Seeks said...

So long as he's peaceful and comfortable, that's the main thing. Hugs to you as you keep vigil.

Ms. Moon said...

I don't have words. I've been there. It's hard and it's holy. I am thinking of you with great love.

Ellen D. said...

Hugs to you and Gregg.

Steve Reed said...

I'm thinking of you at this difficult time!

Linda said...

You are on my heart. He, too, is on my heart. Hugs♥

Damselfly said...

Thinking of you. Hugs.

Susan said...

My thoughts are with you Jennifer. Saying one last goodbye is never easy. Take care.

Joanne Noragon said...

Thinking of you with love.

Ur-spo said...

I too will be thinking of you and waiting for your return when you feel right to do so