This past Friday night I went downtown to our community theater to see my friend Marla's little girl perform in the kids' version of the musical Matilda. I still wasn't feeling my best, but I hated to miss it when I'd accepted the invitation weeks ago. Carsen (who looked like the smallest child on stage) was part of the "little kids" ensemble. Even though she didn't have a lead part, she was really nervous, and during the first half every time she was on stage she sort of stood behind a bigger kid. :) I thought it was brave of her to participate, and her mom says she had fun with rehearsals and being part of the cast. I was proud of her and told her so afterwards.
As a general rule, I dislike going to this theatre. The seats are tiny and uncomfortable, and worse, they're so close together that your arms and shoulders are inevitably pressed against the people seated to your left and right. Getting to your seat (if you're in the middle) involves squeezing past tight spaces, too. This is why, when a bad coughing fit threatened to overcome me just as the first child was singing a solo, I nearly lost my breath altogether trying to suppress it. I decided I'd rather quietly choke to death than risk causing a disturbance and squeezing past people to exit! After a couple of minutes of struggling, a big round of applause broke out and I was finally able to cough and catch my breath. I had to use my inhaler, too, but after that I was okay. Well, okay enough despite feeling like a sardine in a can in those awful seats! I won't be going back anytime soon, but I'm glad I was there to support my little friend.
Saturday Gregg and I went out furniture shopping. We'd decided that for our twentieth wedding anniversary next month we wanted a new bed and bedroom furniture. We've needed a new mattress for years anyway, and we decided to really treat ourselves with a larger (king as opposed to queen), more luxurious bed. We checked over half a dozen places, came home, looked over the website of one of the stores, and finally found something we liked. On Sunday we went back to the first store we'd shopped in to have them order the bed and furniture we'd found and to pick out a mattress. After an hour of lying on one after another, we agreed that we liked what turned out to be (surprise!) one of the most expensive ones they carry. We were a bit shocked at the price!
By the time they totaled up the bed, foundation, mattress, nightstands, etc., we found ourselves spending way over what we'd planned. But what the hell, right? You only get one 20th wedding anniversary, and a bed seems like both a practical and romantic idea. As we paid for everything, I said to Gregg (only half-jokingly), "Well, we can forget the trip we were talking about taking this fall! We'll have to stay home and pretend we're in a nice hotel!" * Even if that turns out to be true, we're making our home so much nicer with the new furniture and repairs/upgrades that we've been focused on that I don't really mind. We're pretty close to having our house exactly like we want it, and there will be time to travel afterwards, I hope. We're trying to spend money wisely while we can afford to do so.
In other news, the garden is really coming along. My cucumbers, tomatoes, and peppers have flowers. The lettuce has been a disappointment (bitter tasting for some reason), but the carrots should be ready any day now and the beans are merrily climbing the trellis. We've also planted yellow squash that seem to be taking off. Everything looks good.
I'll leave you with a picture of Marco I enhanced with Chat GPT the other day. I hope it makes you smile. It really captures his personality!
*The expected delivery for our new bed is in 6 to 8 weeks. SIX TO EIGHT WEEKS! Our anniversary will be over by then if that's true. Sigh.

22 comments:
You had me holding my breath during that show! Jennifer you're funny but sweet, I'm glad you were finally able to cough! Congratulations on your 20th anniversary, but I don't get why these furniture deliveries take forever. And I did a double take when I saw your Marco 😄
King Marco! Ruler of all he surveys! That's so great.
You were a very, very good friend to suffer through that performance in such uncomfortable circumstances. YOU deserve a crown. AND a new bed. Sooner than in 6-8 weeks.
Jennifer- I've started getting one of the varieties of cucumbers I planted in and we went to taste the first one last night and it is so bitter! I mean, so bitter there is no saving them. I'm going to rip out that entire grow bag full of them. What a disappointment. I'm getting some cherry tomatoes but it seems like the large varieties are taking an eon to ripen! As to peppers- I've gotten one smallish bell and two tiny cayenne.
At least the rattlesnake beans are not a disappointment.
You are right, you only have one 20th wedding anniversary, so why not splurge? Too bad it will take that long for everything to arrive though. I dislike being enclosed in small spaces with little to no room. That's why I've come to detest flying so much.
I adore Marco
My theory is that they only begin to make the furniture when they have an order in hand. No stocking up. But you'll love it when it finally gets here.
ALL HAIL KING MARCO! Enjoy your new big bed and bedroom furniture!
Keep in mind that these days good furniture is made when it's ordered, that's why it takes so long. While expensive, it's always of a better quality than something that was thrown together in China, warehoused in the US for who knows how long, and then shipped to your home a less than a week. Congrats on the new furniture and the anniversary!!
Six to eight weeks sounds totally normal to me for proper furniture. For everything else, we go to IKEA 😄
To make your home the way you want it is better than to spend money on going somewhere, in my opinion - you spend most of your time there when not at work, so it really should be your happy place.
20 years for you and Gregg - and precisely one week today for O.K. and me 🥰
Your beautiful card was waiting for us when we returned home yesterday, thank you so much for it!
I wonder why the lettuce tastes bitter. Harvested too late, or too early? As you know, I am not a gardener, but this is puzzling.
You showed yourself a true friend, going through so much discomfort at the theatre to support Carsen!
Marco is looking very regal, as befits his status.
Six to eight weeks is pretty standard here for furniture, too. You'll enjoy it all the more for waiting for it. 😉
An enhanced Marco is even more adorable. That is a long wait for furniture. The store must send someone out to chop down a tree and then use it to form your set, along with farming whatever else is needed. You'll be extra happy when it arrives.
Love,
Janie
That's a fantastic picture of King Marco! Good for you, buying a nice bedroom set. Dave and I bought a King bed years ago, before we left the states, and it's one of the few pieces we shipped across the ocean when we came to the UK. We love it, even though it's hard to get sheets for it here! (UK King beds don't have the same measurements.)
I wish we'd shopped earlier for the bedroom. If I'd realized how long it would take, I would have.
My rattlesnake beans are just starting to really bloom. We're looking forward to them, hopefully soon!
This theater is relatively new, and a nice building, so I don't understand why they didn't make the seats a little more comfortable. I guess they can make more money with as many seats as possible jammed in.
He would adore you!
If that's the case, good. I just wish we could get it in time for our anniversary. I should have planned better!
I'm sure we're going to love it!
Thanks for the comment! That makes me feel a little bit better about the wait.
"For everything else, we go to IKEA" Haha! I showed Gregg your comment and he laughed too.
I'm glad the card arrived! As for the lettuce, I really don't know either. One variety is new to me, so maybe it's more bitter than I expected, but usually the other one is good. We did have a week of very hot weather early on, so it may have been the heat.
Carsen had a birthday party was today at a local park. It was miserably hot outside, so I dropped off a gift for her (books) but didn't stay for the party.
Didn't his "royal" photoshoot turn out great?!
And at least we have plenty of time to buy new pillows and bed linens!
Do you order bed linens online?
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