Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Girl Boss

When we adopted Poppy last spring, we thought she was going to grow up to be a small, sweet, and somewhat meek dog. We didn't hear her bark once the first week we had her, and she was so little!

Now she's a year old, and we couldn't have been more wrong. She's got a big personality (my husband calls her "bossy") and she's not one to take on a secondary role. When we first got George, he followed Ginger's lead in everything, but we thought that was just because of the age difference. He's such a big strong fellow that we just assumed that a new puppy, particularly a female, would fall behind him in the pecking order. Even though he's older, and a male, he pretty much always takes a step back and lets her go first in everything.  You can see it in pictures:   

                                          




Somehow, we've ended up with two dominant female dogs who think they rule the roost! George doesn't seem to mind, though. In fact, him and Poppy are now best friends!


33 comments:

Joanne Noragon said...

That's how it was with our Cairns. We got the male first, but when we got the female, all bets were off. She ruled. He quietly stepped aside.

Margaret said...

It does defy logic, doesn't it? We assume that the older animal will be dominant and it's not always the case.

Dave R said...

Lily's like that, always in the lead, always bouncing and wanting to play. Biggie's kind of an old palooka. Lily's older and runs rings around him.

Mistress Maddie said...

Poppy would be great in the drag world!!!!!

Debra She Who Seeks said...

Dogs are pack animals. They respect hierarchy, whether they're top dog or not!

Terra said...

It sounds and looks like George and Poppy have worked things out and like their arrangement. I would have guessed that the older dog that lived with you first would have been the leader, but they had a different idea.

angryparsnip said...

Oh sweet George he is just a very empathetic. He just wants to be there for Poppy like Ginger was fir him.
Hamish learned how to be such a sweetheart from Watson who was the most caring and understanding Gud Dug.

Librarian said...

That look on Poppy's face in the last picture and her posture say it all!
George is a gentleman, leaving the ladies go first. He reminds me of our big, strong male cats who allowed my tiny female kitten to rule.

Moving with Mitchell said...

Look at the size of her! She makes George look little. And she's a beauty.

Debby said...

I wonder if Poppy took on the 'alpha dog' spot, because she sensed that George was not an alpha dog. He's not accustomed to the role, having been 'trained' by Ginger.

Debby said...

PS: I am surprised at the size of her, compared to George! She was so little!!

Yorkshire Pudding said...

Perhaps Poppy is merely imitating the dominant matriarchal role that you play in your household - bossing Gregg about with, "Gregg do this!" and "Gregg do that!" It's just a theory.

Ms. Moon said...

I wonder if because of the females' traditional role in protecting the pups, they are not afraid to be the more bossy ones in the family. Probably not. Poppy may just be a feminist.

Steve Reed said...

Perhaps George is simply sticking with the pattern he learned with Ginger. Hey, whatever works!

Jennifer said...

There may be something in what you say, Mary. I've heard that female dogs can sometimes be more protective, and that's been true with both Ginger and Poppy. Neither could/can stand strange men in the house (like plumbers for instance) and really act menacing!

Jennifer said...

Yes, they get along great, and play hard together! Getting George a new companion has been one of the best things we've ever done for him.

Jennifer said...

Ha! I don't play that kind of role in our marriage. Not that I'm all that submissive, either, but I certainly don't boss Gregg around! :)

Jennifer said...

George is still heavier than her, but she's taller.

Jennifer said...

The pictures are a little bit deceptive, although Poppy is taller than George. He's still broader in the chest and heavier than her, though.

Jennifer said...

Maybe George just likes strong women!

Jennifer said...

George IS a gentleman! He's such a good, good boy!

Jennifer said...

Awww! Yes, our dogs do learn from each other, don't they?

Jennifer said...

They're really, really good friends. They play and roughhouse constantly! Getting Poppy made George a happier dog. :)

Jennifer said...

She can be a bit of a diva!

Jennifer said...

This is true. Poppy is still enough of a puppy that when George has had enough, he can growl just right and she knows to stop. But he has amazing patience with her!

Jennifer said...

George is so much more active now that he has Poppy to play with! They wrestle and "fight" constantly, and really seem to love each other. It's helping keep George young!

Jennifer said...

This is true! George is a really good boy, and he's had so much patience with Poppy as she grows up.

Jennifer said...

"Quietly stepped aside" sounds like our Gentle Georgie! :)

Yorkshire Pudding said...

What does Gregg say?

Coppa's girl said...

Poppy has turned into a beautiful dog - that last photo shows how much she's grown. She has the sweetest face..
When we had our first female dog, after three males, we worried how she'd react to the two males in the house. We needn't have lost any sleep - Peppa turned out to be the bossiest dog we've ever had, and kept the two males, and us, firmly under her paw!

Moving with Mitchell said...

And it's just her general presence!

Ur-spo said...

When you love them they drive you crazy - because they know they can.

yellowdoggranny said...

sigh************ I miss having a doggie.