Sunday, December 31, 2023

Vigil

I'll never forget how I'm spending New Year's Eve 2023. For two days now my dad's blood pressure and pulse have been so low as to be unmeasurable, but he's still (just barely) breathing. The hospice nurse that came out today was surprised that he's still holding on.

I told my mom that he's determined to see the new year in. My dad is tougher than I knew. 

Dad's getting very small doses of morphine here and there, and he seems comfortable and peaceful. I'm grateful for that. He still responds a little to voices and touch. It surely won't be long now.

I'll try to be back soon, but in the meantime, I wish you all a Happy New Year. Thank you for another year of friendship and kindness.
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  1. Terra December 31, 2023 at 10:06 PM

    Hugs and prayers for you and your loved ones in this so difficult time.

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  2. Susan HeatherDecember 31, 2023 at 10:29 PM

    It is hard for you all. Hugs from New Zealand.

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  3. Steve. Because 'Steve' is almost as nice a name as 'Paul'.December 31, 2023 at 10:35 PM

    Thank You for a year of wonderful posts. XOO

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  4. BonnieDecember 31, 2023 at 10:49 PM

    I'm sorry Jennifer. This is such a difficult time and the holidays do not make it any easier. I'm keeping you all in my thoughts. I appreciate your friendship. xx

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  5. coffeeontheporchwithmeDecember 31, 2023 at 11:01 PM

    Thinking of you at this time. Losing a parent is life changing. I’m glad to hear he is comfortable. - Jenn

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  6. AndrewJanuary 1, 2024 at 2:29 AM

    Not a great start for the new year for you. Take good care of yourself and you can be there for others. No matter, best wishes for 2024.

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  7. YaelJanuary 1, 2024 at 3:01 AM

    My thoughts are with you Jennifer.

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  8. LibrarianJanuary 1, 2024 at 3:39 AM

    Thinking of you, dear friend.

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  9. Coppa's girlJanuary 1, 2024 at 4:11 AM

    Normally I don't comment, although I read your blog regularly. I'd like to add that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

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  10. Moving with MitchellJanuary 1, 2024 at 4:55 AM

    Sending you love and hugs.

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  11. Yorkshire PuddingJanuary 1, 2024 at 5:38 AM

    With you in spirit my friend. It sounds as though he is not suffering. I hope he made it into 2024.

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  12. The Weaver of GrassJanuary 1, 2024 at 5:41 AM

    I send you my love. You all need the strength to get through the next few weeks and months. My thoughts are with you.

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  13. KarlaJanuary 1, 2024 at 6:30 AM

    This is so hard, losing a parent. Sending love to you and your Mom.

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  14. ColetteJanuary 1, 2024 at 7:52 AM

    You are in my thoughts.

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  15. BobJanuary 1, 2024 at 8:19 AM

    Hoping it's a peaceful transition for all of you.
    Peace

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  16. Debra She Who SeeksJanuary 1, 2024 at 8:30 AM

    So long as he's peaceful and comfortable, that's the main thing. Hugs to you as you keep vigil.

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  17. Ms. MoonJanuary 1, 2024 at 9:16 AM

    I don't have words. I've been there. It's hard and it's holy. I am thinking of you with great love.

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  18. Ellen D.January 1, 2024 at 9:23 AM

    Hugs to you and Gregg.

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  19. Steve ReedJanuary 1, 2024 at 10:07 AM

    I'm thinking of you at this difficult time!

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  20. LindaJanuary 1, 2024 at 12:04 PM

    You are on my heart. He, too, is on my heart. Hugs♥

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  21. DamselflyJanuary 1, 2024 at 12:52 PM

    Thinking of you. Hugs.

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  22. SusanJanuary 1, 2024 at 7:43 PM

    My thoughts are with you Jennifer. Saying one last goodbye is never easy. Take care.

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  23. Joanne NoragonJanuary 1, 2024 at 8:04 PM

    Thinking of you with love.

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  24. Ur-spoJanuary 2, 2024 at 7:50 AM

    I too will be thinking of you and waiting for your return when you feel right to do so

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